Counseling Service
"All in life is about change. And international relationship is the ultimate, most brightful and often painful experience of change, meeting new world, culture, environment, experiences and feelings. When you date someone from another country, it brings whole new world to you and changes your existing world, your life outlook, and you find yourself not being able to rely on your past dating experiences or lessons. But, it is human nature to automatically judge new situations based on the past experience. I guess that is why by realistic statistics most of Western men who have tried international dating, have been burnt and hurt, and few have come to successful ending.
I hope you do realize that entering this new world of Russian Ukrainian dating you need a new approach, new understanding of how and why these women write this or that, say this or that or behave like they do. I can help you to understand their nature, motives, their culture and outlook, leading you to a successful international relationship that can result in a happy marriage to a beautiful and loyal Russian or Ukraine woman."
Natalya,
International Relationship Counselor, Russian Dating Coach
34 years old, married, two children.
Holds university degree in the English language as teacher and interpreter from Kharkov State University of Karazina.
A professional coach and counselor for Ukraine dating agency AllBeautiful with 8 years hands-on experience in working in dating agency, matchmaking, interpreting and translations. Have excellent ethic reputation and simply is a wise woman, wife and mother. Her style is warm, engaging and goal-oriented. Men – clients of All Beautiful agency have given high marks to her work and noted that Natalya helps them to gain insight into the Russian woman’s soul, motives and behavior, often saved their day in Ukraine being their angel-guard.
See Testimonials and ask for references contacts who have used Natalya’s services to learn more.
"My individual dating counseling service is for the wise men, who want to come aboard armed with knowledge and professional advice, to avoid burns, wasted time and finances. As by statistics for a traditional path of writing to a beautiful picture on a dating site network and I do mean a Site network, 90% of men do get burnt or frustrated or feel that agood advice would be to the point!
The reality is that, around 80-90% of beautiful Russian and Ukraine women in the most desirable age group of 20-30 years old who join international dating agencies and the most popular large networks are not craving to marry a Western man for the sake of it, they have an attitude “join and see what it brings me”, the better if they get along the way gifts and kicks from men -correspondents, and in some cases would actually marry a Mr. Prince to their expectations (mature, wise, good looking, understanding their humor and well dressed Western man who knows how to win a Russian woman’s heart). There are no doubts that such an attitude is supported and/or encouraged by the woman’s local agency and it is no less important question to find out how honest and decent is the woman’s agency.
From these beauties’ point of view, most of these middle aged, medium class American and European men are boring, not well dressed, have different sense of humor, speak about strange or inappropriate things in the first date and in general have no idea how to keep a young modern eastern European girl interested, and are unable to develop chemistry with them. You would think they are scammers. In some cases they are, but in many cases they aren’t. As men do, these women judge men based on their previous dating experience with Russian men, and quite often have been burnt or sometimes have unrealistic expectations to a Western man simply because they have no idea what a serious marriage-oriented man from a different culture could be. These two worlds completely different meet each other, and alas, often do not find common ground or understanding. Then, there are two scenarios – if a woman is dishonest she’d cheat and scam and statistics shows that is it is still not that easy for a man to find it out; if she’s decent and really seems to be a good catch, she’d just end the foreign relationship which does not turn out the way she’d expected, often without even explanations. So for you as a man who dates a woman from another country and culture, it’s a double difficult task – provided that all women are from the planet of Venus, Russian and Ukraine women are from another Galaxy as well, you have to not only do your best to show up as an eligible and understanding the culture difference man and eventually win her attention, interest and heart but in the first place be able to distinguish between the honest woman and those dishonest ones and realize what agency you are dealing with. It would be a clear case to understand whether you deal with a scammer or the one who’s just decided to step the waters or hasn't made up her mind yet, but it would be the worst case if you met a real beautiful, sincere and serious about marriage woman and would not know what to do to succeed."
Phone Counseling and Dating Coaching:
Counseling is done in e-mails, telephone conversations, Skype chat sessions at your convenient pace and by means most convenient to you – at US-based phone number and Skype free chat program, so you won’t have to spend on international phone rates.
All our former clients who have used All Beautiful help and counseling advice along the way have noted that our dating consulting and coaching have saved them lots of heartache and held them away from sad experiences in other places of international dating network.
"Just a couple of dating coaching advice to give you an idea of the tremendous cultural differences in the dating scene in Western world and in Russian Ukrainian culture:
- Many men who join international dating sites would treat Russian women with presents and/or financial help, thinking it would guarantee to win their attention and heart. Later they are disappointed wondering why all these women took their financial help but at the end flew away. I will teach you first of all, whom to give your financial support, on which stage of the relationship and in what manner (which is also important!)
- A little secret to share - Russian Ukrainian woman looks for both financial support and meaningful relationship, former never without the latter. At that she disrespects if a man brags about his wellbeing or achievements. While in Western culture it’s important to show yourself and your success, in Russian culture you have to be humble, but yet hint how good provider you will be for your nest.
- Have you paid attention on how different you look dressed when you are in a Russian or Ukraine town at your all important first date with a Ukraine girl? If your trousers are short or jacket looks funny, you may turn her away immediately. Let me talk to you about appearance, how to behave in first date, what to talk about and other small but very important things.
- Very often no matter how well you understand Russian or Ukrainian woman, if she’s from the beginning a scammer in disguise, nothing will save the relationship. Let me help you to distinguish between good sheep and bad sheep.
Here are some of the topics men have questions and concerns about along the way:
- Your first visit to Ukraine
- Traveling on my own or having an agency’s professional support?
- how to avoid problems, frauds, scams, dealing with local people around, local phone card
- stay in a hotel or an apartment? Advantages and disadvantages
- what transport is safe to use (domestic planes, cars, buses, trains)
- how to book a train/air ticket, domestic flights, airport pick up
- going through Ukrainian customs
- Your First Date in Ukraine
- nowadays dating in Ukraine? What are Ukrainian women used to?
- How to understand if She is for real? What are her true intentions? What she thinks of me?
- Can she be a scammer?
- are the looks important? How to dress.
- what if she does not speak your language? Should I even try?
- how to chose an interpreter?
- do I bring flowers?
- how do I get her contacts?
- Dating a single mother
- advantages and disadvantages, is she better than single Ukraine girl
- potential problems (your and her views on children up-bringing; what she expects from you; what you should and may not…)
- would her child accept me easily?
- Child’s biological father: would he be a problem/permission to leave the country?
- Would I have to adopt?
- Ukrainian women versus Western women
- what differences should I expect
- roles in the family
- What a Ukrainian woman expects from her husband
- Age difference
- I want a young wife! Potential advantages and disadvantages
- Money matters, how they see it here and there
- I’m in a relationship BUT …
- language barrier bothers me
- I’m not sure whether she is really interested in me
- I’m not sure whether she would adjust to MY WAY OF LIVING easily
- I’m not sure whether she would socially adjust in new country
- Her expectations are too high
- I don’t get along with her mother/relatives/child …
- I still have desire to make introductions with other beautiful Ukrainian women
Once again, this is just a small fraction of all concerns and questions a Western man would have in the process of Russian Ukrainian dating and relationship building. Do not hesitate to write us with preliminary inquiry on the best individual Russian Dating Counseling path for You.
Call at +38 050 969-36-32
Or write official@allbeautiful.net
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